A magical shift to spark engagement

Hey, there! AmyK here.

Most adults do not like being told what to do.

It triggers resistance, shuts down creativity, and often leads to disengagement.

But one small, magical shift can change their behavior very quickly: the word “invite.”

To invite is to honor someone’s agency.

It signals respect, openness, and collaboration. And in a world where so many leaders push, demand, and dictate, the energy of invitation is magnetic.

Work Example:​
Imagine you're leading a team meeting and want fresh ideas on improving customer experience. Instead of saying, “I need you to come up with a game plan by Friday,” try:

This small shift turns a directive into a doorway. People step in more willingly when they feel like participants, not pawns.

Relationship Example:​
In personal relationships, “invite” carries the same loving energy. Instead of, “You should really talk to me when you’re upset,” consider:

Suddenly, it’s not pressure—it’s presence.

The emotional temperature cools. Safety is restored.

The door to connection swings open.

When you use the word invite, you’re not only increasing engagement—you’re cultivating trust, inclusion, and connection.

You’re saying, “Your input matters. You matter.” And that, in leadership and love, is pure magic.

I invite you to try it. Start one sentence today with “I invite you to …” and watch how people respond.

You may be surprised by how much more they’re willing to give—simply because you communicated that what they have to give truly matters.

Hugs n hugs,

AmyK